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Tuesday, April 24, 2012


Tyler Perry on Racial Profiling
A few days before President Obama was supposed to speak at my studio, I was leaving the studio, headed to the airport. Most times when I leave the studio I have an unmarked escort. Other times I constantly check in my rearview mirror to be sure that I’m not being followed. It’s a safety precaution that my security team taught me. As I got to an intersection, I made a left turn from the right lane and was pulled over by two police officers. I pulled the car over and put it in park. Then, I let the window down and sat in the car waiting for the officer. The officer came up to the driver’s door and said that I made an illegal turn. I said, “I signaled to get into the turning lane, then made the turn because I have to be sure I’m not being followed.” He said, “why do you think someone would be following you?”

Before I could answer him, I heard a hard banging coming from the passenger window. I had never been in this position before so I asked the officer who was at my window what was going on and why is someone banging on the window like that. He said, “let your window down, let your window down. Your windows are tinted.” As I let down the passenger window, there was another officer standing on the passenger side of the car. He said, “what is wrong with you?” The other officer said to him, “he thinks he’s being followed.” Then, the second officer said, “why do you think someone is following you? What is wrong with you?”

Before I could answer the officer on the passenger side, the one on the driver’s side had reached into the car and started pulling on the switch that turns the car on and off, saying, “put your foot on the brake, put your foot on the brake!” I was so confused as to what he was doing, or what he thought he was doing. It looked like he was trying to pull the switch out of the dashboard. I finally realized that he thought that switch was the key, so I told him that it wasn’t the key he was grabbing. I reached down into the cup holder to get the key, not realizing that the key had a black leather strap on it. As I grabbed it they both tensed up and I dropped it as I heard my mother’s voice from when I was a little boy.

My mother would always say to me, “if you get stopped by the police, especially if they are white policemen, you say ‘yes sir’ and ‘no sir’, and if they want to take you in, you go with them. Don’t resist, you hear me? Don’t make any quick moves, don’t run, you just go.” My mother was born in 1945 into a segregated hotbed town in rural Louisiana. She had known of many colored men at the time who were lynched and never heard from again. Since I was her only son for ten years, growing up she was so worried about me. It wasn’t until after I heard her voice that I realized that both of these officers were white.

The officer on the driver’s side continued to badger me, “why do you think someone is following you?” I then said, “I think you guys need to just write the ticket and do whatever you need to do.” It was so hostile. I was so confused. It was happening so fast that I could easily see how this situation could get out of hand very quickly. I didn’t feel safe at all. But one officer stopped his questioning and said, “we may not let you go. You think you’re being followed, what’s wrong with you?” At this point, I told him that I wanted to get out of the car. I wanted the passersby to see what was happening.

As I stepped out of the car another officer pulled up in front of my car. This officer was a black guy. He took one look at me and had that “Oh No” look on his face. He immediately took both officers to the back of my car and spoke to them in a hushed tone. After that, one of the officers stayed near his car while one came back, very apologetic.

I said all of that to say this: do you see how quickly this could have turned for the worse?

Now I know that there are many great officers, patrolmen and security guys out there. I am aware of that. But although we have made significant strides with racial profiling in this country, the world needs to know that we are still being racially profiled, and until this situation has improved greatly, I’m not sure how a murder in Florida can be protected by a “stand your ground law.”

And in another case that I have been screaming at the top of my lungs about, also in Florida, is the case of Terrance Williams and Felipe Santos, a young black man and a young Mexican man. Eight years ago, in Naples, FL, they were both put in the back of Deputy Steve Calkins’ police car and never heard from again.

They were never arrested, never brought to jail. They were put into the back of Deputy Calkins’ car and never heard from again. And to this day Deputy Steve Calkins is a free man.

I guess it’s time to march in Naples now.

RACIAL PROFILING SHOULD BE A HATE CRIME INVESTIGATED BY THE FBI!!!

That way local government can’t make the decision on whether or not these people get punished.

-Tyler [Perry] (taken from http://geekinglychic.tumblr.com/post/20320666016/tyler-perry-on-racial-profiling)

Tuesday, August 30, 2011

Cliques Gone Past the 80's

I used to think cliques such as nerds, goths, jocks,trendsetters; all those fun labels were done past the 80's. But as I have continued to learn throughout the years, that is not the case. I found a story through a friend that proves to me it really hasn't gone past the eighties: (http://www.gizmodo.com.au/2011/08/my-okcupid-affair-with-a-world-champion-magic-the-gathering-player/comment-page-4/#comment-170055)
This is basically a woman named Alyssa Bereznak who took it upon herself to sign up at an online dating site called OKCupid, went on a date with someone who she picked online, and then decided write about it. It may seem harmless but then you will find later in this writing piece, she takes the courtesy to badmouth the guy for not being who she wanted him to be in the beginning. I personally had the urge to bash her in but I realized that I would just be doing exactly as what she just did.  I have seen from my own personal perspective that at times when people even admit to someone with a mentality such as Bereznak for having hobbies like playing Magic the Gathering, they are outed or made into a pariah for not following the conventional characteristics of what is considered to be a "normal" person. There are probably many people out there who do have a good character and are rejected just for having an affinity for something that most adults don't engage in.We are living in a world where it is ok to judge someone by what they do instead of by the "content of their character."Thinking about it, with these types of websites one can't have so much high expectations that you would find somebody exactly as you want them to be.Situations like these make me question if humans as a species would ever evolve from such idealistic thoughts that a person is some sort of object to be tailored or molded into being who another person wants them to be instead of just being themselves.  What do you think?

P.S. as for Bereznak's situation; unfortunately for her, she was outed by a lot of people and even written about in another article called Alyssa Bereznak Just Reminded Us That Women Can Be Predators Online Too. Kudos for Elly